ALERT: Dad tells Son His Mom died of Heroin Overdose – Is it a FAKE?


Brenden Bickerstaff-Clark Video of Dad Tells Son His Mom Died of Heroin OverdoseSo most of you are quite familiar with the video floating around Facebook of the dad telling his son that his mom died of a heroin overdose.  Since Kill the Heroin Epidemic Nationwide and Heroin News is all about spreading awareness, we stand with Brenden Bickerstaff Clark (the dad in the video) and his family in their mission to spread awareness by showing this video and most importantly, the young 8 year old boy’s reaction to hearing about him mom dying of heroin overdose.  Why?  Because if anything in the world is going to produce the desire to change and get clean in a suffering heroin addict’s heart, it’s the cries of a broken-hearted child grieving over the loss of their mother (or father).

Given the extreme popularity and controversy surrounding and related to this video, we felt it was appropriate to make a formal statement.  Moreover, rumors that the video is a FAKE has started circulating around the internet so we wanted to address what we know at this particular point in time.  For those of you who haven’t seen the actual video, we’ve taken a copy of the video and uploaded it to our community.  To see the full 2 and a half minute video of a dad telling his 8 year old son about him mom’s heroin overdose related death, click the play button below.

VIDEO: Dad Tells Son, His Mom Died of Heroin Overdose – Brenden Bickerstaff-Clark (Father)

The above heroin overdose video has gotten an extraordinary number of views in only a short period time but has been highly controversial in the overall online recovery community.  Love it or hate it, Brenden Bickerstaff-Clark is making a statement and it’s a doozy.  However, some have started spreading rumors that the video was “staged” or “fake”.  While there’s no doubt it was “staged”, in other words, Brendon Bickerstaff-Clark (a recovering heroin addict) planned to tell and record his 8 year old son about his mom’s death from a heroin overdose on video in order to spread awareness and save lives, rumors that the video is a “fake” appear to be unfounded at this time.  However, Kill the Heroin Epidemic Nationwide and Heroin News are in the process of investigating this more closely.  Below is the story as we all know it.

Story Behind the Video of Brenden Bickerstaff Clark Telling His 8 Year Old Son That His Mom Died From Heroin Overdose

Brenden Bickerstaff-Clark created and posted a video of himself telling his 8 year old son about him mom’s heroin overdose related death.  The video currently has over 218,000 likes and has gone viral all over Facebook.  You can see the originally posted video on Brenden Bickerstaff-Clark’s Facebook profile by clicking here.  Brenden made the comments on his Facebook profile related to the video below.

“THIS FOR ANY AND EVERY ADDICT WITH CHILDREN. TODAY I HAD TO TELL MY 8 YEAR OLD SON THAT HIS MOMMY DIED FROM A DRUG OVERDOSE LAST NIGHT. THIS IS THE REALIZATION AND REALITY OF OUR DISEASE. DONT LET THIS DISEASE HAVE TO MAKE SOMEONE TELL YOUR CHILD THAT YOUR DEAD BECAUSE OF DRUGS. THIS WAS ONE OF THE HARDEST THINGS IVE EVER HAD TO DO. MY SON HAS NO MOTHER BECAUSE OF HEROIN… KINDA HARD TO HEAR BUT U CAN HEAR WHAT WE’RE SAYING.
PLEASE GET HELP SO OUR CHILDREN DONT HAVE TO SUFFER. THIS WASNT STAGED. THIS WAS REAL. I HAD SOMEONE RECORD THIS SO ADDICTS WITH CHILDREN CAN SEE THE SERIOUSNES OF OUR EPIDEMIC. I AM A RECOVERING ADDICT MYSELF WITH 94 DAYS CLEAN TODAY… PLEASE SHARE N MAYBE HELP SAVE A CHILDS PARENTS LIFE.”

Sadly, this little boy with no real capacity to understand addiction or heroin abuse will now live without him mom.  What a tragedy!

NEWS Report: Dad Delivers Heartbreaking News to Son About Drug Abuse

While rumors circulate the internet that the above video and story may be fake, a breaking news report from YourOhioValley.com suggests the story and video is very real.  In an interview with Brenden, YourOhioValley confirms that Brenden is a recovering addict and at the time of the interview, he was 95 days clean.  Congratulations Brandon! See the news report video below which can also be found by clicking here.

Does This Video Stigmatize Addiction and Heroin Use?

We have been contacted by concerned individuals who believe that the above video only serves to stigmatize addicts, addiction in general and heroin use.  However, we disagree.  Stigma and stereotyping occurs when we stand behind, support and/or promote what isn’t entirely true but may contain some previous or partial truths.  For instance, our managing publisher wrote an interesting article called “We Need Your Help Fighting the Stigma of Heroin Addiction” which explains how the picture and our perception of heroin use and addiction is often the “dirty spoon”, the “dirty house” and quite possibly a burned out, dirty looking person living on the streets.  And while there is some partial truth here (which originated the stereotype), heroin can be very attractive and can present itself as the attractive, well-put together man or woman next door with the big house, money and a nice, clean car.  You are encouraged to read the article to see why these stereotypes and stigma is so dangerous.

But the video of a man telling his 8 year old son that his mom died from a heroin overdose presents a real life situation in a real life neighborhood and a real family.  Brenden Bickerstaff-Clark admits that he is a recovering addict and has chosen to share his own personal trauma related to the effects of addiction with the world.  In our opinion, there is nothing stigmatic about presenting and sharing this real life event to the world.  His motives?  To spread awareness and save lives!

Kill the Heroin Epidemic Nationwide and Heroin News Stands Behind Brenden Bickerstaff-Clark

Despite a few rumors circulating around the internet that this video is a fake, until we see proof demonstrating otherwise, we are going to assume it’s real and offer our support and condolences to Brenden Bickerstaff-Clark, his 8 year old son and his family.  We genuinely support his cause of spreading awareness and it’s our hope that some suffering from heroin addiction will be touched and encouraged to change as a result of watching this video.

Imagine if this was your son or your daughter grieving you.  Yes, I know…it can’t happen to you right?  Only other people overdose and die.  You’re different because you’re somehow invincible.  But “You Are Not Invincible” and you can die from a heroin overdose.  You don’t even have to be an addict or a heroin dependent (learn more about Addiction Vs. Dependence).  Just one use of heroin can kill you.  Read “How Does Heroin Overdose Kill You” to learn more.

Do you want to leave your son and/or daughter behind?  Who will be responsible for wiping their tears away?  Who will be left behind to take care of them and will they do as good of a job as you would?  That is…assuming you’ve eliminated heroin use and addiction from your life and are living a normal, healthy life of sobriety and recovery?

To see William’s video response to this video, click the play button below.

William's comments on the Video going around Facebook showing the man telling an 8 year old boy that his mom overdosed and died from drugs.

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Posted by Kill the Heroin Epidemic Nationwide on Tuesday, October 11, 2016

Recovery is Real and the “Cure” for Addiction

While there is no real cure for addiction, treatment is available and many people (including the entire team here at Kill the Heroin Epidemic Nationwide and Heroin News) are living in long-term recovery.  Those in long-term recovery can live normal, healthy lives, take care of their children and be productive members of society.  See the heroin addiction and recovery discussion forum topic “My Response to the Photo Showing Heroin Addicts Passed Out With Her Kid in the Car” to see how someone in recovery is perfectly capable of living a normal life and taking care of their children.

Recovery is real and is the only force more powerful than addiction.  Each individual possesses an inner strength that can be harnessed to get help and get into treatment.  Addiction is a disease and beyond our control – but we don’t have to feed and strengthen it by perpetually using heroin or other drugs.  Whether or not you use drugs is a choice.  Stopping is hard, there’s no doubt about that.  As a recovering addict, I failed 3 times before I finally conquered heroin addiction.  View “The Publisher’s Story” to see how I conquered heroin in my own life.

If you are living in active addiction and serious about getting help, please “contact us” and we will bend over backwards to help you regardless of your financial situation.  You can also view our list of recommended addiction treatment centers and drug rehab facilities.  Each facility has been prescreened and approved based on demanding standards.  So please…don’t continue using.  Make today the day you stop and get into treatment.

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5 thoughts on “ALERT: Dad tells Son His Mom died of Heroin Overdose – Is it a FAKE?

  1. As an advocate and fellow journalist who is recognized by this page as well as others, I wanted to share my personal thoughts. You see I start off on the original message behind this video, I am saddened by the situation but it’s reality.

    You condemn this father for his actions yet do not realize the courage that things like this take, we are judged by so many instead of criticism we should be extending our compassion because this could have been anyone of us.

    We constantly discuss raising awareness and stopping the flood of bodies being left in the wake of this battle, yet we want to bow down to the ignorance of society and shun each other not cool at all. The basis behind this is its neither here nor there stop being critical teach this boy that he is worthy multiple times I have expressed that it takes a village to raise a child so let us decide whether or not we want to be angry that someone posted a very real moment that is a reality8 check or grasp the journey remain optimistic that the purpose was not malicious of intent but merely a wake up call.

    As for the confirmation on the situation I am still looking for more information since I am waiting for my reply there will be an update, but along with William DrugAddictsAgainstDrugs stands behind the courage of this gentleman and so does Reflections from recovery continue to stay strong and may it end one day.

    • Amanda,

      Thank you for providing your words of wisdom. In researching the content and validity of this video, I’ve seen a number of critics share their unfavorable opinions and chastise the man for making this video, let alone making it public. But as the father of the child, he not only possesses the legal right to create and post such a video, but seems to be doing it for good cause. Now I’ll admit (even publicly) that a credible source and good person who leads another recovery related organization claims that he is doing this for attention. She claims to know him personally, although I don’t know exactly how well she knows him and when I asked her to explain how she knows his intentions, she pointed at his behavior and demeanor in the video. She pointed out his lack of tears and what appeared to her as a lack of sincerity and grief. Now, I noticed this as well but I also know from my many years of studying human behavior and counseling that people respond to grief in different ways. In fact, some who are severely traumatized even laugh, a seemingly inappropriate response but their body is so “shocked” that they react in inappropriate ways simply because the reality of the situation hasn’t even sunk in or hit them yet.

      I cannot pretend to know the intentions of Brenden (the father) other than what he shared in his Facebook comments (posted in the article for reference). Thus, unless proof falls in my lap, which could really only be an admission of posting it for attention, I have no choice to assume he’s genuine just as the reality that this poor woman lost her life to a heroin overdose.

      Sadly, many people making negative comments don’t understand addiction. But what amazes me, is they should understand the value of human life. To read so many horrible comments on YouTube that indicate they are glad she’s dead or the child would be better off without either parent is disturbing. Either they are dealing with their own traumatic loss of a loved one and lashing out in anger to mask the pain they are feeling or they are completely uneducated and ignorant regarding addiction and recovery. Thus, I will be patient in responding to them and reserve judgment.

      Thanks again for sharing your thoughts.

      Peace and Love,

      William – Founder and Publisher of this Community

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